Tips for Calling a Crisis Line
When reaching out to a crisis hotline, there are several steps that can help ensure you receive the most effective support:
1. Prepare for the Call: Find a quiet and safe space where you feel comfortable talking. Have any necessary information nearby, such as your location or medication details, if relevant. Know yourself and honor the situation in which you are best able to interact: do you talk best walking? is it in your closet after the kids go to nap?
2. Dial the Number: Call the hotline number. Be patient; there might be a short wait due to high call volumes. If it’s a text-based hotline, follow the provided instructions for initiating a conversation.
3. Be Honest and Open: Be as honest and open as you feel comfortable. The counselors are there to help and are non-judgmental. Share what you’re experiencing and the emotions you’re feeling.
4. Focus on the Present Situation: Explain the immediate issue or crisis you’re facing. If it’s related to suicidal thoughts or self-harm, convey the seriousness of your situation.
5. Be Clear About Your Needs: If you have specific needs, concerns, or questions, express them clearly. Whether it’s needing immediate emotional support or seeking information on local resources, communicating your needs is crucial.
6. Follow Counselor Guidance: Crisis hotline counselors are trained to provide support and guidance. They might offer coping strategies, breathing exercises, or safety plans. Follow their advice and engage with their suggestions.
7. Take Your Time: There’s no rush. Take the time you need to express yourself and understand the guidance provided. The counselors are there to listen for as long as necessary.
8. Note Down Resources: If the counselor provides information about local mental health services, support groups, or additional resources, write them down. These resources can be valuable after the call ends.
9. Reflect on the Conversation: After the call, take a moment to reflect on the conversation. Consider what was helpful and whether you might need further support or follow-up care. This is a great place to start in terms of seeking therapy. Crisis hotlines are primarily meant to provide a bridge through the crisis and to provide resources for acquiring more longstanding care. They are not a replacement for actual therapy. Making some notes of the holes that still remain may help jump start therapy and increase therapeutic focus and effectiveness.
10. Follow Up if Needed: If you still feel distressed or require ongoing support, consider reaching out to a therapist, counselor, or support group. Hotlines can often provide information about where to seek further assistance. There is no limit to the number of times you may call a crisis line; this resource is truly available for us when we need it.
Remember, crisis hotlines are confidential and aim to provide the support you need during difficult times. Your courage in reaching out for help is a significant step toward healing, and these hotlines are there to assist you through your crisis.